How to Survive as a Woman Alone

First, you must accept that you only have so much control over whether or not you survive. You are a woman, and the world is a dangerous place for you. In fact, people are going to go out of their way to remind you of that when they ask you who you’re traveling with and you tell them that you’re alone.

“You’re so brave!” they’ll exclaim in a tone that implies they would never let their daughter do what you are doing. However, there are a few things you can do to mitigate risk.

Don’t wear anything too flashy. If you have an engagement ring or any real stones, turn them so they face your hand. Keep your key ring around your finger so you can jab anyone in the eye. Keep your purse zipped, and wear a crossbody bag or some other kind of bag someone would struggle to get off of you. Run with an Apple watch on in case you get raped and murdered. Maybe someone will be able to collect it post-mortem. Maybe you’ll even be able to call the police and live.

Have your finger ready to hit 911 if you feel unsafe. Look over your shoulder often, but not so often that other people perceive you as feeling uncertain. Walk confidently. If you need directions, stop to look at your phone as if you’re texting someone.

Listen to music if you feel comfortable doing so, but keep one earbud out if you’re not certain of your surroundings so…